Want a surefire, faster way to transform your child’s behavior?
HINT: It doesn’t take arguing or yelling!
What you are about to read is going to sound crazy because we’re all so used to hearing about controlling behavior through consequences and punishments, and while that is important, we’re going to share three secrets with you today that’s going to revolutionize the way you approach your relationship with your child.
We are the Grothoffs and we are behavioral transformation specialist
who help clients transform their kid’s behavior
and strengthen their relationship.
So what is it that we are talking about that will transform your child’s behavior?
It’s a method we call “Empowered Parenting”.
It’s combining respect, consciousness and collaboration together to create life-long transformation in your child and your home. Not only will they become the person they were made to be, you’ll be more connected than ever as a parent.
So we’re going to share with you 3 secrets about a little-known method called “Empowered Parenting” and how you can cultivate a peaceful, healthy, happy family and home.
And we know what you’re probably thinking:
“I’ve tried everything and have no idea what my child needs!”
We were there too! We tried so many things, spent a lot of money and through it all we found a way to transform our family. Now we would like to show you a great way you can help your child and get amazing results.
So let us tell you the secrets we learned that helped us and now we hope will help you.
So the first secret is, trying to control and modify your child’s behavior will only make things worse.
The big idea here is that arguing and yelling to get them to do what you want them to do only provides temporary relief and modification while behavior transformation through empowered parenting leads to life-long change.
This is important because when you shift from modification to behavior transformation, everything changes. Attempting to control and modify behavior will eventually lead to resentment, rebellion and ruined relationships. But when you focus on empowering your child to transform into the person they were made to be, the result will be respect, relief and reconciliation.!
The second secret is that communication can be the difference between a 15 minute discussion or a 2 hour battle.
How you speak to your spouse, your kids and others can either be an anxiety driver or an anxiety reducer. Most people don’t consider how big a part communication plays in behavior issues.
Poor communication builds resentment and contempt among a family which makes for a broken relationship. Learning how to respectfully communicate with each other in a family builds strong, solid and long lasting relationship. What type of relationship do you want with your wife? With your kids? With others?
The third secret is that traditional therapy and prescription medications don’t get to the root of the problem.
Traditional therapists are too general in practice and medications only mask the symptoms.
This is key because if you’re only treating the surface level symptoms or masking them, it will only make things worse. This will make everyone more frustrated and induce anxiety-driven behaviors. Over time, this will deteriorate your relationship and lead to deeper issues for them later in life.
Again, we know what you’re thinking:
“This sounds too hard to make work with my child?”
At first it can seem challenging to implement but within weeks you will see the change happening. The tricky thing is that it’s really important to determine whether or not this approach is the right fit for you and your child. It’s not for everyone. For the right people however, it is life-changing. So the first step is to discover whether or not this is what you need!
And so I’ve developed this complementary assessment consultation you can determine if this approach will work for you.
With this assessment, we can discover what you need to transform your child’s behavior and get them on their way to a healthier, happier life.
And so what this is going to do is strengthen the relationship you have with your child and relieve stress and anxiety for both of you! It will take an hour long battle down to a 15 minute conversation you have with your child.
And we, as behavioral experts, discovered this method 20 years ago when we had severe issues with our own daughter. In the work we do we assess the whole situation and see where the challenges and struggles so we can understand what you need to change your situation.
Who is Gina and Don
Donald Grothoff is an author, speaker, EFT Practitioner, Behavior Transformation Specialist, parent of three and co-owner of Focused Healthy Family in Charlotte, NC USA. Gina is an Occupational Therapist, Behavior Transformation Specialist, parent of three, Blogger, Homeschooling Mom and co-owner of Focused Healthy Family in Charlotte, NC
The focus of their practice is helping transform behavior to facilitate a better parent child relationship.
Don, who has over fifteen years of training and experience and holds a certificate from The Association for the Advancement of Meridian Energy Techniques (AAMET) in EFT, and his wife Gina, who has over 25 years as an Occupational Therapist, assess the whole family, parents and children looking at environment, nutrition, health and emotional state providing a variety of alternative treatments that address the family’s particular needs. Don and Gina work one-on-one with parents and children to deal with such behavioral issues as anger, bullying, abuse, and anxiety.
Don is the author of the E-book “A Trip to the Non-Sensical: A Dad’s Journey Through His Daughter’s OCD”, in which he shares his personal experience guiding his family through a traumatic diagnosis.
“We recognize that people are seeking alternatives to tradition methods of handling behavior issues. When they reach our door they are usually at their wit’s end. Even people with the same diagnosis face different challenges. Understanding those challenges and their emotional blocks is essential to our treatment model.”
Don and Gina are available for private sessions, speaking and workshops worldwide via Skype, Zoom and other online methods.
Sarah, single mother of one, talks about her experience with Focused Healthy Family
Nicole, mother of two, talks about her experience with Focused Healthy Family
From the Holistic Wellness Center in Ft. Mill, SC where I work with their patience I get testimonials…
“Let me start by saying that I was a HOT MESS when I first came to this center. Sleep deprived, anxious, depressed, confused – turns out I had a host of symptoms laying under the surface (thyroid issues, hormone imbalances, zinc deficits, etc.) that had been “misdiagnosed” by previous doctors. I LITERALLY had blood work done a week before I came here, and conventional medicine didn’t see anything wrong! When I say that these guys get at the underlying symptoms, they will uncover just about everything you can think of and more. It will blow your mind! Dr. Boyle is brilliant, and I’m so grateful for everything he has done for me. Brittany, Mikela, Mary Beth, Katie – these guys have all been so compassionate and gracious. Also, I am incredibly grateful for Don, the EFT instructor – those sessions helped me in remarkable ways. While I still have work to do with my health goals, I’m in a much better place than when I first started – and I’m more prepared for the road ahead. Thank you HWC!”
— E.D. patient of Holistic Wellness Center
“I started working with Don when I felt like I had hit the bottom. I was struggling with a traumatic birth experience and subconsciously directing my hurt, frustration and anger towards the people I love most – my husband and daughter. Through our weekly EFT sessions, we have worked together to uncover some deeply seeded issues that have effected me greatly in my marriage, parenting and general relationships. After a session, I feel as though another layer of my onion has been shed and new light shines from my soul. Now four months later, I feel like a new person and a kinder, more loving mother and wife. My relationship with my daughter has blossomed. Now we rarely experience a power struggle, and I am able to redirect and release my frustration by utilizing tapping and surrogate tapping.
Don is a kind soul and approaches each of our sessions with the utmost care and truly without judgment. I feel like I can honestly express my feelings through tapping, and Don is extraordinary in the way he guides me through uncovering and healing past and current issues. Tapping is a daily practice for me, and I’m so happy Don taught me this invaluable technique.”
Megan – Virginia
“I am grateful to have had the opportunity to work with you and for you to be able to teach me some life altering techniques and ways to improve my life. You are very intuitive and helpful.”
JA – Rock Hill, SC
“…I’m feeling more peace and contentment with where I am at and where I am going. Your comments about contrast and about the process/journey of accomplishing goals/desires were so helpful. To start realizing I am on a journey and I don’t have to be at the destination right now but have time to get there and should take the time to get is there is amazing. I’m learning how to enjoy and appreciate the journey.”
MS from Texas
So what we’ve done is I’ve created this quick and easy assessment delivered in a complimentary consultation.
If you click the link below you can begin your consultation and find answers to your behavior issues.
We honestly don’t know how much longer we’ll keep this complementary assessment consultation available (especially for free) because we have limited availability due to our current client workload.
So click a link at the bottom of this page to get it today while it’s still available.
We’re always here to help and the results we’ve gotten for parents of tween and teenage children just like you who are struggling with parental/child driven anxiety have been amazing.
We also have collaborative family activities to share with you to help with continued healing and bonding, but today I’m talking about the complementary assessment consultation, which is amazing.
I can’t wait to speak with you soon.
Have a great day.