Empowering Families!

Parents of all kinds – Grandparents, Step Parents, Single Parents, Foster Parents, Legal Guardians.  Childcare Professionals – Teachers, Nannies,  Family/Child Support Workers, Babysitters. 

Facilitating behavioral transformation for better parent / child relationships!

  • Kids disruptive behavior at school and home
  • Kids performing poorly at school
  • Teenager who won’t talk to you.
  • Home life is chaotic
  • You feel you are losing control
  • You are at your wits end

Parenting is the toughest job in the world. When you add into the family picture anxiety issues, financial stress and life’s ongoing issues it can make parenting even harder.

This affects

  • our ability to think clearly and be productively
  • how we deal with kids, spouse, coworkers
  • our health causing fatigue, illness and chronic pain
  • our overall mood

What if you could make it easier?  What if you could connect again with your kids? What if your kids could calm their behaviors and perform better in school?

The way we communicate with each other, the way we treat each other and the baggage we carry all affect our family.

Learning new skills in these areas can change a family dynamics and make a parents job easier.

Welcome to Focused Healthy Family!

Don Grothoff
EFT Practitioner and Behavior Transformation Specialist
Gina Grothoff
Occupational Therapist and Behavior Transformation Specialist

Don works with individuals, parents and families

Gina works with parents and families

We are here to meet you where you are and empower you to go to where you want to be as a parent and family. We do this naturally and without medication.

We empower parents and kids of all kinds to transform their families through functional, connected and loving relationships.


Nicole, mother of two, talks about her experience with Focused Healthy Family

I started working with Don when I felt like I had hit the bottom. I was struggling with a traumatic birth experience and subconsciously directing my hurt, frustration and anger towards the people I love most – my husband and daughter. Through our weekly EFT sessions, we have worked together to uncover some deeply seeded issues that have effected me greatly in my marriage, parenting and general relationships. After a session, I feel as though another layer of my onion has been shed and new light shines from my soul. Now four months later, I feel like a new person and a kinder, more loving mother and wife. My relationship with my daughter has blossomed. Now we rarely experience a power struggle, and I am able to redirect and release my frustration by utilizing tapping and surrogate tapping.

Don is a kind soul and approaches each of our sessions with the utmost care and truly without judgment. I feel like I can honestly express my feelings through tapping, and Don is extraordinary in the way he guides me through uncovering and healing past and current issues. Tapping is a daily practice for me, and I’m so happy Don taught me this invaluable technique.”

Megan – Virginia

“I am grateful to have had the opportunity to work with you and for you to be able to teach me some life altering techniques and ways to improve my life. You are very intuitive and helpful.”

JA – Rock Hill, SC